Dear fellow trannies. Stop! Just stop with your hysterical demands. You’re doing none of us any favours. I’m utterly appalled that a woman would be dragged away from her children for simply calling a person that she views as a man a “man”. And to clarify, I will tell the reader at this point that it is the minority of politically minded, mentally deranged trannies who are behaving in this Nazi fashion, the rest of us are just out to have fun, so don’t think it is all of us who are this premenstrual in our thinking.
We, as trannies, whilst having the privilege of being able to walk around dressed as we please, do NOT have the right to bully other people’s speech, and to change the way their brain works, and to change the way people register what it is that their eyes are seeing. There are laws that protect everyone against violence and discrimination in the UK, including trannies, and that’s enough for me. I don’t need to demand that strangers cater to my every whim and demand. There are trannies that I find it impossible to view or to refer to as ‘she’ or ‘he’. So if I struggle with it, as a tranny, you can imagine how the rest of the populace who are not exposed to our world feel about it. And, NO, we do not need to educate people and insist that they honour us. I’m under no obligation to obey anyone’s commands, and no one is obliged to obey mine either.
I’ll point out that respect is a two-way street. If you want it, give it, and keep it real in the process. Most of us are British blokes with broad shoulders, narrow hips, and large forearms and hands. The majority of us are not at all convincing, and most of us are wearing wigs with stubble poking through our pancake makeup. Still others (Hairy Harry, for example) are hanging onto the walls of the club, or the railings of the bar, wobbling in their sensible heels, about to keel over because they have rugby player’s legs and haven’t yet mastered the dainty art of sashaying. I laugh at it. Other trannies in the club laugh at it too, although we do so with hands over our mouths as a matter of respect. So just stop with the histrionics, and do expect some kind of attention, either good or bad, when you go outdoors. We’re not the majority or in any way the norm. People are going to stare. Send your blood sample off to a lab and see what the results come back as; it certainly won’t say ‘trans’, no matter that you ‘feel’ like a natural woman.
A friend of mine, a former bodybuilder whose breast implants would be too large to fit into Dolly Parton’s bras, is constantly being referred to as “Sir” whenever she enters stores to make purchases. She doesn’t throw hissy fits, she simply accepts that the person addressing her is using the pronoun that his eyes are telling him apply to the person he’s serving. No big deal, just take your bags, thank him for his service, and leave. You might wish that everyone could view you as a beautiful princess, but if that’s not the reality then just suck it up and go about your business. Life isn’t always fair or kind, and there’s bigger things to worry about.
Political LGB (T does not belong in that alphabet spaghetti, because being T has got nothing to do with a person’s sexuality in any way that isn’t already covered by the B) are even bullying their own. RuPaul had a catchphrase which went, “Hooo, gurrrl, you got a shemail”, which simply meant a contestant had received a vote or a notification. RuPaul was made to remove his catchphrase because the political LGB felt it was demeaning to men who think they are women. The logic was that ‘she-mail’ dehumanised men in dresses. In London, we used to have a club night on a Wednesday in Madame Jo-Jo’s called Trannyshack. Every year they would hold a tranny pageant to find the next big tranny superstar. Every Christmas they would hold a tranny ball, and the admirers, the men who would come to seduce us, were known as tranny-chasers. The word tranny is now being cancelled by the same political LGB people who are themselves, for the most part, not trans. Tranny is not a bad word. Every tranny I know is comfortable with the word tranny. Some prefer T-girl, but tranny is the most oft-used word to describe us. It is an umbrella term that incorporates dudes with boobs, sexual fetishists, cross-dressers, hairy pantie wearers, and more. The only people I wouldn’t call trannies are those who have gone through with the operation in its entirety – dangly bits cut off, and no intentions of pumping out babies and having them suckle on hairy teats in the near future.
Lastly, political trannies are taking away other people’s human rights. Now we are expected to say “pregnant people” and not “pregnant women” in case some tranny gets offended. Just the other day I saw Academy of Breastfeeding medicine suggest that we include the term “father’s milk” into the list of ways we would talk about breast milk. Children are being exposed to ideas and notions that are not age appropriate. Shared bathrooms (I always use the gents as a mark of respect for real women). Sports competitions where trans men are beating up on biological women (never the other way around), or out-performing them in wrestling matches or on the track fields. I could go on and on, but I’ll leave it at this. Keep in mind that other people have rights too, and in the words of the infamous Marsha P. Johnson, just get on with your life and “pay it no mind”. You do you, boo boo, and let others do themselves.
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Well said. The TRA’s are doing such a lot of damage to the relationship between trans women and women.I accept trans women are trans women, and I will , out of politeness and human decency, treat them as if the were the sex they wish to be, but we cannot be bullied into believing what is patently not true – that biology suddenly has no relevance.
If you use the gents facilities, do you get much hassle from men ? We are always told that trans women daren’t go into the gents loos because of the violence and threats that they would face from other men. Have you found this to be the case?
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Not at all. You do get a few stares, but just “pay it no mind”. You’ll find there are always bouncers or security guards not too far removed from the gents’ toilets. And we are men, after all, and should be able to ‘handle ourselves’ physically if it comes to that. As I state in the article, very very few trannies can pass as real women. Always something gives them away. Inquisitive by others is part of the culture. We’re not the norm, and we shouldn’t expect to be able to walk down the street without stares. Trannies need to develop whatever coping skills they feel suit their situations best.
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This gives me hope that trans people and feminists (specifically those presently branded TERFs) can discuss and accommodate one another, as was the case before some TRAs spiralled into a narcissistic lunacy that branded a request for any compromise on their part as ‘transphobia’. It does indeed do harm to those people who just want to get on with their lives without making a biggie of it, but who in doing just that, leave the podium free for those who prefer a far more aggressive type of activism. I hope your post gets shared a lot and that you are able to continue living your life in safety and freedom.
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Thanks for your comment. And thanks for your well wishes, and for taking the time to read the article. Political LGB are so bad that I support TERFs because I see the incredible damage these deranged political activists are doing to not only my community, but the general populace as a whole. x
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ChristI You’re fuckin ugly, aren’t you? A right beaut!
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I seem to have attracted a raging troll. Please ignore his comments. I think you’re truly beautiful. His own ugly nature is spilling out, and he’s projecting his vile onto everyone who has intelligently commented on my post. Thank you again.
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Ha, no worries. The is just par for the course when misogynist encounter women who disagree with them -insult their looks; it’s a tale as old as time. I hope you are doing well! Have a great weekend! x
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Wow, fantastic post, thank you for speaking up. You, are as I remember trannies, from when I first became aware of them in the 1970/80s, Since then I haven’t paid much attention to trans people or thought about them much (not in a dismissive way, just in a live and let life sort of way). But in the last few years trans people seem to have come into my consciousness in quite an alarming and intimidating way, for all the reasons you outlined in your post. Why the change? Who are these people? Where do they get their ideas from? How has it suddenly changed in recent years? I am prepared to accept that they are a minority in your community if that is what you say but how come they are so influential and powerful?
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It’s the political body of the LGB. The battle has been fought and won. They have no reason to go out on the street screaming for equality. It’s total nonsense. Being gay is not a physical disability or a mental impairment. It’s simply a liking for an un-“natural” sex act for the most part. Straight people enjoy kinky sex too, but they’re not out on the streets with their banners, demanding special treatment. The LGB are trying ever harder to stay alive, and they are trying to have any and all perceived minority groups align with them, even muslims (which is laughable if you look at muslims protesting in Birmingham against homosexuality being taught in schools, or look at the polls that show more than half of UK muslims want homosexuality to be illegal). The rainbow flag of the LGB now has a brown stripe on it to incorporate blacks and non-whites. Black people were never excluded from the movement and the rainbow flag was never about skin tone, but now they need to try to get the BLM lot on board. As a movement, LGB is in its death throes and they know it.
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Prove you are trans…… I dare you.
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You didn’t even read the article. Prove you’re not a complete moron and get back to me with a question that makes sense, and I’ll see if you’ve passed the test, and then I’ll see if I’m in the mood to waste precious time on you.
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How refreshing! Thanks for your sensible comments. You are the kind of trans person I’ve been familiar with for all of my adult life in more than one country. Unfortunately I can’t share your writing publicly or my SM accounts will be shut down!
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Thank you for reading and for your feedback. Hopefully all of this insanity will end soon, and won’t spread any further than it already has.
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I’m trans and I’m Jewish so the Nazis wouldn’t let me join even if I wanted to. Which I don’t. What a load of hateful transphobic bilge.
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You’re welcome. x
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I find it ironic that you end with a reference to Martha P. Johnson, given that Martha *broke a cop car’s windshield with a brick* during the second night of the Stonewall riots, and was very active in direct action protests with the Gay Liberation Front and Street Transvestite Action Revolutionaries throughout the ’70s–hardly an emblem of polite acceptance of transphobia and homophobia.
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I find it ironic that you can’t spell her name properly. It’s Marsha, not Martha.
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Overzealous autocorrect aside, my point remains: invoking Marsha in a tirade about not standing up for yourself is a very strange choice.
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T’s got quite a lot to do with one’s sexuality, given that the word it stands for is ‘transsexual’.
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You sure it’s not ‘transgender’? Being ‘transsexual’ would be ‘bisexual’. Nice try, though.
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In America a new movement has just started. The group is called Super Happy Fun America. They are not claiming oppression per say, but they say they want to celebrate their sexuality anyway. They want a straight pride parade, but they say everyone is invited. They claim that LGBTQIA+ is excluding them and they want an S added. They tried to raise a straight pride flag and the city of Boston wouldn’t let them. I am an atheist and a lesbian and I find this group utterly hilarious. I’m not a conservative but I totally get what they are trying to say here. Its an Epic troll by US boomers. I’m a lesbian ally.
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Thanks for that information and your comment. That group sounds like fun. Pride and LGB annoy me. Gays aren’t physically disabled or mentally impaired as a rule. It’s simply an ‘alternative’ sexual interaction. Straight couples can have even raunchier sex lives, with the wife pegging the husband, but they’re not out on the streets demanding that they have a month given over to them and their own flags designed. The one thing I would say is that the word ‘ally’ also annoys me. What does it even mean? The assumption would seem to suggest that if one doesn’t label oneself an ‘ally’ then a person is walking around hating on lesbians or waging a war on them. It’s another way to guilt trip people into getting on board with LGB issues. I’m going to check out Super Happy Fun America. Liberals suck the oxygen out of the room with their dour and overly serious and sensitive natures. I think the best way to combat them is to mock or ridicule them. They’re certainly not capable of debate. Thanks again. xx
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What a refreshing article I really enjoyed it. The term tranny evokes lots of happy memories I have from the 80s bopping with the trannies in a late night club in Manchester. It’s all so different now so hostile and vitriolic. I fear the TRAs are doing a lot of harm to women and children especially and trans people.
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